MissCharlton,theladyofhischoice,wastheownerofpropertyinherownright;butlestitshouldbethoughtthatBaxtermarriedherfor”covetousness,”herequested,first,thatsheshouldgiveovertoherrelativestheprincipalpartofherfortune,andthat”heshouldhavenothingthatbeforehermarriagewashers;”secondly,thatsheshouldsoarrangeheraffairs”asthathemightbeentangledinnolawsuits;”and,thirdly,”thatsheshouldexpectnoneofthetimethathisministerialworkmightrequire。”Theseseveralconditionsthebridehavingcompliedwith,themarriagetookplace,andprovedahappyone。”Welived,”saidBaxter,”ininviolatedloveandmutualcomplacency,sensibleofthebenefitofmutualhelp,nearlynineteenyears。”
YetthelifeofBaxterwasoneofgreattrialsandtroubles,arisingfromtheunsettledstateofthetimesinwhichhelived。
Hewashuntedaboutfromonepartofthecountrytoanother,andforseveralyearshehadnosettleddwelling-place。”Thewomen,hegentlyremarksinhis’Life,’”havemostofthatsortoftrouble,butmywifeeasilyboreitall。”InthesixthyearofhismarriageBaxterwasbroughtbeforethemagistratesatBrentford,forholdingaconventicleatActon,andwassentencedbythemtobeimprisonedinClerkenwellGaol。Therehewasjoinedbyhiswife,whoaffectionatelynursedhimduringhisconfinement。”Shewasneversocheerfulacompaniontome,”hesays,”asinprison,andwasverymuchagainstmeseekingtobereleased。”AtlengthhewassetatlibertybythejudgesoftheCourtofCommonPleas,towhomhehadappealedagainstthesentenceofthemagistrates。AtthedeathofMrs。Baxter,afteraverytroubledyethappyandcheerfullife,herhusbandleftatouchingportraitofthegraces,virtues,andChristiancharacterofthisexcellentwoman——oneofthemostcharmingthingstobefoundinhisworks。
ThenobleCountZinzendorfwasunitedtoanequallynoblewoman,whoborehimupthroughlifebyhergreatspirit,andsustainedhiminallhislaboursbyherunfailingcourage。”Twenty-fouryears’experiencehasshownme,”hesaid,”thatjustthehelpmatewhomIhaveistheonlyonethatcouldsuitmyvocation。Whoelsecouldhavesocarriedthroughmyfamilyaffairs?——wholivedsospotlesslybeforetheworld?Whosowiselyaidedmeinmyrejectionofadrymorality?……Whowould,likeshe,withoutamurmur,haveseenherhusbandencountersuchdangersbylandandsea?——whoundertakenwithhim,andsustained,suchastonishingpilgrimages?Who,amidsuchdifficulties,couldhaveheldupherheadandsupportedme?……Andfinally,who,ofallhumanbeings,couldsowellunderstandandinterprettoothersmyinnerandouterbeingasthisone,ofsuchnoblenessinherwayofthinking,suchgreatintellectualcapacity,andfreefromthetheologicalperplexitiesthatsooftenenvelopedme?
OneofthebraveDr。Livingstone’sgreatesttrialsduringhistravelsinSouthAfricawasthedeathofhisaffectionatewife,whohadsharedhisdangers,andaccompaniedhiminsomanyofhiswanderings。IncommunicatingtheintelligenceofherdeceaseatShupanga,ontheRiverZambesi,tohisfriendSirRoderickMurchison,Dr。Livingstonesaid:”Imustconfessthatthisheavystrokequitetakestheheartoutofme。Everythingelsethathashappenedonlymadememoredeterminedtoovercomealldifficulties;butafterthissadstrokeIfeelcrushedandvoidofstrength。Onlythreeshortmonthsofhersociety,afterfouryearsseparation!Imarriedherforlove,andthelongerIlivedwithherIlovedherthemore。Agoodwife,andagood,brave,kindheartedmotherwasshe,deservingallthepraisesyoubestoweduponheratourpartingdinner,forteachingherownandthenativechildren,too,atKolobeng。ItrytobowtotheblowasfromourHeavenlyFather,whoordersallthingsforus……Ishalldomydutystill,butitiswithadarkenedhorizonthatIagainsetaboutit。”
SirSamuelRomillyleftbehindhim,inhisAutobiography,atouchingpictureofhiswife,towhomheattributednosmallmeasureofthesuccessandhappinessthataccompaniedhimthroughlife。”Forthelastfifteenyears,”hesaid,”myhappinesshasbeentheconstantstudyofthemostexcellentofwives:awomaninwhomastrongunderstanding,thenoblestandmostelevatedsentiments,andthemostcourageousvirtue,areunitedtothewarmestaffection,andtotheutmostdelicacyofmindandheart;
andalltheseintellectualperfectionsaregracedbythemostsplendidbeautythathumaneyeseverbeheld。”(17)Romilly’saffectionandadmirationforthisnoblewomanenduredtotheend;
andwhenshedied,theshockprovedgreaterthanhissensitivenaturecouldbear。Sleeplefthiseyelids,hismindbecameunhinged,andthreedaysafterherdeaththesadeventoccurredwhichbroughthisownvaluedlifetoaclose。(18)
SirFrancisBurdett,towhomRomillyhadbeenoftenpoliticallyopposed,fellintosuchastateofprofoundmelancholyonthedeathofhiswife,thathepersistentlyrefusednourishmentofanykind,anddiedbeforetheremovalofherremainsfromthehouse;
andhusbandandwifewerelaidsidebysideinthesamegrave。
ItwasgriefforthelossofhiswifethatsentSirThomasGrahamintothearmyattheageofforty-three。Everyoneknowsthepictureofthenewly-weddedpairbyGainsborough——oneofthemostexquisiteofthatpainter’sworks。Theylivedhappilytogetherforeighteenyears,andthenshedied,leavinghiminconsolable。
Toforgethissorrow——and,assomethought,togetridofthewearinessofhislifewithouther——GrahamjoinedLordHoodasavolunteer,anddistinguishedhimselfbytherecklessnessofhisbraveryatthesiegeofToulon。HeservedallthroughthePeninsularWar,firstunderSirJohnMoore,andafterwardsunderWellington;risingthroughthevariousgradesoftheservice,untilherosetobesecondincommand。Hewascommonlyknownasthe”heroofBarossa,”becauseofhisfamousvictoryatthatplace;andhewaseventuallyraisedtothepeerageasLordLynedoch,endinghisdayspeacefullyataveryadvancedage。Buttothelasthetenderlycherishedthememoryofhisdeadwife,totheloveofwhomhemaybesaidtohaveowedallhisglory。”Never,”saidSheridanofhim,whenpronouncinghiseulogyintheHouseofCommons——”neverwasthereseatedaloftierspiritinabraverheart。”
Andsohavenoblewivescherishedthememoryoftheirhusbands。
ThereisacelebratedmonumentinVienna,erectedtothememoryofoneofthebestgeneralsoftheAustrianarmy,onwhichthereisaninscription,settingforthhisgreatservicesduringtheSevenYears’War,concludingwiththewords,”NONPATRIA,NECIMPERATOR,SEDCONJUXPOSUIT。”WhenSirAlbertMortondied,hiswife’sgriefwassuchthatsheshortlyfollowedhim,andwaslaidbyhisside。
Wotton’stwolinesontheeventhavebeencelebratedascontainingavolumeinseventeenwords:”Hefirstdeceased;sheforalittletriedTolivewithouthim,likeditnot,anddied。”
So,whenWashington’swifewasinformedthatherdearlordhadsufferedhislastagony——haddrawnhislastbreath,anddeparted——shesaid:”’Tiswell;allisnowover。Ishallsoonfollowhim;
Ihavenomoretrialstopassthrough。”
Notonlyhavewomenbeenthebestcompanions,friends,andconsolers,buttheyhaveinmanycasesbeenthemosteffectivehelpersoftheirhusbandsintheirspeciallinesofwork。Galvaniwasespeciallyhappyinhiswife。ShewasthedaughterofProfessorGaleazzi;anditissaidtohavebeenthroughherquickobservationofthecircumstanceofthelegofafrog,placednearanelectricalmachine,becomingconvulsedwhentouchedbyaknife,thatherhusbandwasfirstledtoinvestigatethesciencewhichhassincebecomeidentifiedwithhisname。Lavoisier’swifealsowasawomanofrealscientificability,whonotonlysharedinherhusband’spursuits,butevenundertookthetaskofengravingtheplatesthataccompaniedhis’Elements。’
ThelateDr。Bucklandhadanothertruehelperinhiswife,whoassistedhimwithherpen,preparedandmendedhisfossils,andfurnishedmanyofthedrawingsandillustrationsofhispublishedworks。”Notwithstandingherdevotiontoherhusband’spursuits,”
saysherson,FrankBuckland,intheprefacetooneofhisfather’sworks,”shedidnotneglecttheeducationofherchildren,butoccupiedhermorningsinsuperintendingtheirinstructioninsoundandusefulknowledge。Thesterlingvalueofherlabourstheynow,inafter-life,fullyappreciate,andfeelmostthankfulthattheywereblessedwithsogoodamother。”(19)
AstillmoreremarkableinstanceofhelpfulnessinawifeispresentedinthecaseofHuber,theGenevanaturalist。Huberwasblindfromhisseventeenthyear,andyethefoundmeanstostudyandmasterabranchofnaturalhistorydemandingtheclosestobservationandthekeenesteyesight。Itwasthroughtheeyesofhiswifethathismindworkedasiftheyhadbeenhisown。Sheencouragedherhusband’sstudiesasameansofalleviatinghisprivation,whichatlengthhecametoforget;andhislifewasasprolongedandhappyasisusualwithmostnaturalists。Heevenwentsofarastodeclarethatheshouldbemiserablewerehetoregainhiseyesight。”Ishouldnotknow,”hesaid,”towhatextentapersoninmysituationcouldbebeloved;besides,tomemywifeisalwaysyoung,fresh,andpretty,whichisnolightmatter。”Huber’sgreatworkon’Bees’isstillregardedasamasterpiece,embodyingavastamountoforiginalobservationontheirhabitsandnaturalhistory。Indeed,whilereadinghisdescriptions,onewouldsupposethattheyweretheworkofasingularlykeensightedman,ratherthanofonewhohadbeenentirelyblindfortwenty-fiveyearsatthetimeatwhichhewrotethem。
NotlesstouchingwasthedevotionofLadyHamiltontotheserviceofherhusband,thelateSirWilliamHamilton,ProfessorofLogicandMetaphysicsintheUniversityofEdinburgh。Afterhehadbeenstrickenbyparalysisthroughoverworkattheageoffifty-six,shebecamehands,eyes,mind,andeverythingtohim。Sheidentifiedherselfwithhiswork,readandconsultedbooksforhim,copiedoutandcorrectedhislectures,andrelievedhimofallbusinesswhichshefeltherselfcompetenttoundertake。
Indeed,herconductasawifewasnothingshortofheroic;anditisprobablethatbutforherdevotedandmorethanwifelyhelp,andherrarepracticalability,thegreatestofherhusband’sworkswouldneverhaveseenthelight。Hewasbynatureunmethodicalanddisorderly,andshesuppliedhimwithmethodandorderliness。Histemperamentwasstudiousbutindolent,whileshewasactiveandenergetic。Sheaboundedinthequalitieswhichhemostlacked。Hehadthegenius,towhichhervigorousnaturegavetheforceandimpulse。
WhenSirWilliamHamiltonwaselectedtohisProfessorship,afterasevereandevenbittercontest,hisopponents,professingtoregardhimasavisionary,predictedthathecouldneverteachaclassofstudents,andthathisappointmentwouldproveatotalfailure。Hedetermined,withthehelpofhiswife,tojustifythechoiceofhissupporters,andtoprovethathisenemieswerefalseprophets。Havingnostockoflecturesonhand,eachlectureofthefirstcoursewaswrittenoutdaybyday,asitwastobedeliveredonthefollowingmorning。Hiswifesatupwithhimnightafternight,towriteoutafaircopyofthelecturesfromtheroughsheets,whichhedraftedintheadjoiningroom。”Onsomeoccasions,”sayshisbiographer,”thesubjectofthelectureswouldprovelesseasilymanagedthanonothers;andthenSirWilliamwouldbefoundwritingaslateasnineo’clockinthemorning,whilehisfaithfulbutweariedamanuensishadfallenasleeponasofa。”(20)
Sometimesthefinishingtouchestothelecturewerelefttobegivenjustbeforetheclass-hour。Thushelped,SirWilliamcompletedhiscourse;hisreputationasalecturerwasestablished;andheeventuallybecamerecognisedthroughoutEuropeasoneoftheleadingintellectsofhistime。(21)
Thewomanwhosoothesanxietybyherpresence,whocharmsandallaysirritabilitybyhersweetnessoftemper,isaconsoleraswellasatruehelper。Niebuhralwaysspokeofhiswifeasafellow-workerwithhiminthissense。Withoutthepeaceandconsolationwhichbefoundinhersociety,hisnaturewouldhavefrettedincomparativeuselessness。”Hersweetnessoftemperandherlove,”saidhe,”raisemeabovetheearth,andinamannerseparatemefromthislife。”Butshewasahelperinanotherandmoredirectway。Niebuhrwasaccustomedtodiscusswithhiswifeeveryhistoricaldiscovery,everypoliticalevent,everynoveltyinliterature;anditwasmainlyforherpleasureandapprobation,inthefirstinstance,thathelabouredwhilepreparinghimselffortheinstructionoftheworldatlarge。
ThewifeofJohnStuartMillwasanotherworthyhelperofherhusband,thoughinamoreabstrusedepartmentofstudy,aswelearnfromhistouchingdedicationofthetreatise’OnLiberty’:——”Tothebelovedanddeploredmemoryofherwhowastheinspirer,andinparttheauthor,ofallthatisbestinmywritings——thefriendandwife,whoseexaltedsenseoftruthandrightwasmystrongestincitement,andwhoseapprobationwasmychiefreward,I
dedicatethisvolume。”Notlesstouchingisthetestimonybornebyanothergreatlivingwritertothecharacterofhiswife,intheinscriptionuponthetombstoneofMrs。CarlyleinHaddingtonChurchyard,whereareinscribedthesewords:-”Inherbrightexistence,shehadmoresorrowsthanarecommon,butalsoasoftamiability,acapacityofdiscernment,andanobleloyaltyofheart,whicharerare。Forfortyyearsshewasthetrueandlovinghelpmateofherhusband,andbyactandwordunweariedlyforwardedhimasnoneelsecould,inallofworthythathedidorattempted”
ThemarriedlifeofFaradaywaseminentlyhappy。Inhiswifehefound,atthesametime,atruehelpmateandsoul-mate。Shesupported,cheered,andstrengthenedhimonhiswaythroughlife,givinghim”theclearcontentmentofaheartatease。”Inhisdiaryhespeaksofhismarriageas”asourceofhonourandhappinessfarexceedingalltherest。”Aftertwentyeightyears’
experience,hespokeofitas”aneventwhich,morethananyother,hadcontributedtohisearthlyhappinessandhealthystateofmind……Theunion(saidhe)hasinnowisechanged,exceptonlyinthedepthandstrengthofitscharacter。”Andforsix-
and-fortyyearsdidtheunioncontinueunbroken;theloveoftheoldmanremainingasfresh,asearnest,asheart-whole,asinthedaysofhisimpetuousyouth。Inthiscase,marriagewasas——”Agoldenchainletdownfromheaven,Whoselinksarebrightandeven;
Thatfallslikesleeponlovers,andcombinesThesoftandsweetestmindsInequalknots。”
Besidesbeingahelper,womanisemphaticallyaconsoler。Hersympathyisunfailing。Shesoothes,cheers,andcomforts。NeverwasthismoretruethaninthecaseofthewifeofTomHood,whosetenderdevotiontohim,duringalifethatwasaprolongedillness,isoneofthemostaffectingthingsinbiography。A
womanofexcellentgoodsense,sheappreciatedherhusband’sgenius,and,byencouragementandsympathy,cheeredandheartenedhimtorenewedeffortinmanyawearystruggleforlife。Shecreatedabouthimanatmosphereofhopeandcheerfulness,andnowheredidthesunshineofherloveseemsobrightaswhenlightingupthecouchofherinvalidhusband。
Norwasheunconsciousofherworth。Inoneofhisletterstoher,whenabsentfromhisside,Hoodsaid:”Ineverwasanything,Dearest,tillIknewyou;andIhavebeenabetter,happier,andmoreprosperousmaneversince。Laybythattruthinlavender,Sweetest,andremindmeofitwhenIfail。Iamwritingwarmlyandfondly,butnotwithoutgoodcause。First,yourownaffectionateletter,latelyreceived;next,theremembranceofourdearchildren,pledges——whatdarlingones!——ofouroldfamiliarlove;then,adeliciousimpulsetopourouttheoverflowingsofmyheartintoyours;andlast,notleast,theknowledgethatyourdeareyeswillreadwhatmyhandisnowwriting。Perhapsthereisanafterthoughtthat,whatevermaybefallme,thewifeofmybosomwillhavetheacknowledgmentofhertenderness,worth,excellence——allthatiswifelyorwomanly,frommypen。”Inanotherletter,alsowrittentohiswifeduringabriefabsence,thereisanaturaltouch,showinghisdeepaffectionforher:”Iwentandretracedourwalkinthepark,andsatdownonthesameseat,andfelthappierandbetter。”
ButnotonlywasMrs。Hoodaconsoler,shewasalsoahelperofherhusbandinhisspecialwork。Hehadsuchconfidenceinherjudgment,thatheread,andre-read,andcorrectedwithherassistanceallthathewrote。Manyofhispieceswerefirstdedicatedtoher;andherreadymemoryoftensuppliedhimwiththenecessaryreferencesandquotations。Thus,intherollofnoblewivesofmenofgenius,Mrs。Hoodwillalwaysbeentitledtotakeaforemostplace。
NotlesseffectiveasaliteraryhelperwasLadyNapier,thewifeofSirWilliamNapier,historianofthePeninsularWar。Sheencouragedhimtoundertakethework,andwithoutherhelphewouldhaveexperiencedgreatdifficultyincompletingit。Shetranslatedandepitomizedtheimmensemassoforiginaldocuments,manyofthemincipher,onwhichitwasinagreatmeasurefounded。WhentheDukeofWellingtonwastoldoftheartandindustryshehaddisplayedindecipheringKingJoseph’sportfolio,andtheimmensemassofcorrespondencetakenatVittoria,heatfirstwouldhardlybelieveit,adding——”Iwouldhavegiven20,000L。toanypersonwhocouldhavedonethisformeinthePeninsula。”SirWilliamNapier’shandwritingbeingalmostillegible,LadyNapiermadeouthisroughinterlinedmanuscript,whichhehimselfcouldscarcelyread,andwroteoutafullfaircopyfortheprinter;andallthisvastlaboursheundertookandaccomplished,accordingtothetestimonyofherhusband,withouthavingforamomentneglectedthecareandeducationofalargefamily。WhenSirWilliamlayonhisdeathbed,LadyNapierwasatthesametimedangerouslyill;butshewaswheeledintohisroomonasofa,andthetwotooktheirsilentfarewellofeachother。
Thehusbanddiedfirst;inafewweeksthewifefollowedhim,andtheysleepsidebysideinthesamegrave。
Manyothersimilartrueheartedwivesriseupinthememory,torecitewhosepraiseswouldmorethanfillupourremainingspace——
suchasFlaxman’swife,AnnDenham,whocheeredandencouragedherhusbandthroughlifeintheprosecutionofhisart,accompanyinghimtoRome,sharinginhislaboursandanxieties,andfinallyinhistriumphs,andtowhomFlaxman,inthefortiethyearoftheirmarriedlife,dedicatedhisbeautifuldesignsillustrativeofFaith,Hope,andCharity,intokenofhisdeepandundimmedaffection;——suchasKatherineBoutcher,”dark-eyedKate,”thewifeofWilliamBlake,whobelievedherhusbandtobethefirstgeniusonearth,workedofftheimpressionsofhisplatesandcolouredthembeautifullywithherownhand,borewithhiminallhiserraticways,sympathisedwithhiminhissorrowsandjoysforforty-fiveyears,andcomfortedhimuntilhisdyinghour——hislastsketch,madeinhisseventy-firstyear,beingalikenessofhimself,beforemakingwhich,seeinghiswifecryingbyhisside,hesaid,”Stay,Kate!justkeepasyouare;Iwilldrawyourportrait,foryouhaveeverbeenanangeltome;”——suchagainasLadyFranklin,thetrueandnoblewoman,whoneverrestedinherendeavourstopenetratethesecretofthePolarSeaandprosecutethesearchforherlong-losthusband——undauntedbyfailure,andperseveringinherdeterminationwithadevotionandsinglenessofpurposealtogetherunparalleled;——orsuchagainasthewifeofZimmermann,whoseintensemelancholyshestroveinvaintoassuage,sympathizingwithhim,listeningtohim,andendeavouringtounderstandhim——andtowhom,whenonherdeathbed,abouttoleavehimforever,sheaddressedthetouchingwords,”MypoorZimmermann!whowillnowunderstandthee?”
Wiveshaveactivelyhelpedtheirhusbandsinotherways。BeforeWeinsbergsurrenderedtoitsbesiegers,thewomenoftheplaceaskedpermissionofthecaptorstoremovetheirvaluables。Thepermissionwasgranted,andshortlyafter,thewomenwereseenissuingfromthegatescarryingtheirhusbandsontheirshoulders。
LordNithsdaleowedhisescapefromprisontotheaddressofhiswife,whochangedgarmentswithhim,sendinghimforthinherstead,andherselfremainingprisoner,——anexamplewhichwassuccessfullyrepeatedbyMadamedeLavalette。
Butthemostremarkableinstanceofthereleaseofahusbandthroughthedevotionofawife,wasthatofthecelebratedGrotius。HehadlainfornearlytwentymonthsinthestrongfortressofLoevestein,nearGorcum,havingbeencondemnedbythegovernmentoftheUnitedProvincestoperpetualimprisonment。Hiswife,havingbeenallowedtosharehiscell,greatlyrelievedhissolitude。Shewaspermittedtogointothetowntwiceaweek,andbringherhusbandbooks,ofwhichherequiredalargenumbertoenablehimtoprosecutehisstudies。Atlengthalargechestwasrequiredtoholdthem。Thisthesentriesatfirstexaminedwithgreatstrictness,but,findingthatitonlycontainedbooks(amongstothersArminianbooks)andlinen,theyatlengthgaveupthesearch,anditwasallowedtopassoutandinasamatterofcourse。ThisledGrotius’wifetoconceivetheideaofreleasinghim;andshepersuadedhimonedaytodeposithimselfinthechestinsteadoftheoutgoingbooks。Whenthetwosoldiersappointedtoremoveittookitup,theyfeltittobeconsiderablyheavierthanusual,andoneofthemasked,jestingly,”HavewegottheArminianhimselfhere?”towhichtheready-wittedwifereplied,”Yes,perhapssomeArminianbooks。”ThechestreachedGorcuminsafety;
thecaptivewasreleased;andGrotiusescapedacrossthefrontierintoBrabant,andafterwardsintoFrance,wherehewasrejoinedbyhiswife。
Trialandsufferingarethetestsofmarriedlife。Theybringouttherealcharacter,andoftentendtoproducetheclosestunion。
Theymayevenbethespringofthepuresthappiness。
Uninterruptedjoy,likeuninterruptedsuccess,isnotgoodforeithermanorwoman。WhenHeine’swifedied,hebegantoreflectuponthelosshehadsustained。Theyhadbothknownpoverty,andstruggledthroughithand-in-hand;anditwashisgreatestsorrowthatshewastakenfromhimatthemomentwhenfortunewasbeginningtosmileuponhim,buttoolateforhertoshareinhisprosperity。”AlasI”saidhe,”amongstmygriefsmustIreckonevenherlove——thestrongest,truest,thateverinspiredtheheartofwoman——whichmademethehappiestofmortals,andyetwastomeafountainofathousanddistresses,inquietudes,andcares?Toentirecheerfulness,perhaps,sheneverattained;butforwhatunspeakablesweetness,whatexalted,enrapturingjoys,isnotloveindebtedtosorrow!Amidstgrowinganxieties,withthetortureofanguishinmyheart,Ihavebeenmade,evenbythelosswhichcausedmethisanguishandtheseanxieties,inexpressiblyhappy!Whentearsflowedoverourcheeks,didnotanameless,seldom-feltdelightstreamthroughmybreast,oppressedequallybyjoyandsorrow!”
ThereisadegreeofsentimentinGermanlovewhichseemsstrangetoEnglishreaders,——suchaswefinddepictedinthelivesofNovalis,JungStilling,Fichte,JeanPaul,andothersthatmightbenamed。TheGermanbetrothalisaceremonyofalmostequalimportancetothemarriageitself;andinthatstatethesentimentsareallowedfreeplay,whilstEnglishloversarerestrained,shy,andasifashamedoftheirfeelings。Take,forinstance,thecaseofHerder,whomhisfuturewifefirstsawinthepulpit。”Iheard,”shesays,”thevoiceofanangel,andsoul’swordssuchasIhadneverheardbefore。IntheafternoonI
sawhim,andstammeredoutmythankstohim;fromthistimeforthoursoulswereone。”Theywerebetrothedlongbeforetheirmeanswouldpermitthemtomarry;butatlengththeywereunited。”Weweremarried,”saysCaroline,thewife,”bytherose-lightofabeautifulevening。Wewereoneheart,onesoul。”Herderwasequallyecstaticinhislanguage。”Ihaveawife,”hewrotetoJacobi,”thatisthetree,theconsolation,andthehappinessofmylife。Eveninflyingtransientthoughts(whichoftensurpriseus),weareone!”
Take,again,thecaseofFichte,inwhosehistoryhiscourtshipandmarriageformabeautifulepisode。HewasapoorGermanstudent,livingwithafamilyatZurichinthecapacityoftutor,whenhefirstmadetheacquaintanceofJohannaMariaHahn,anieceofKlopstock。HerpositioninlifewashigherthanthatofFichte;nevertheless,sheregardedhimwithsincereadmiration。
WhenFichtewasabouttoleaveZurich,histrothplightedtoher,she,knowinghimtobeverypoor,offeredhimagiftofmoneybeforesettingout。Hewasinexpressiblyhurtbytheoffer,and,atfirst,evendoubtedwhethershecouldreallylovehim;but,onsecondthoughts,hewrotetoher,expressinghisdeepthanks,but,atthesametime,theimpossibilityofhisacceptingsuchagiftfromher。Hesucceededinreachinghisdestination,thoughentirelydestituteofmeans。Afteralongandhardstrugglewiththeworld,extendingovermanyyears,Fichtewasatlengthearningmoneyenoughtoenablehimtomarry。Inoneofhischarmingletterstohisbetrothedhesaid:——”Andso,dearest,Isolemnlydevotemyselftothee,andthanktheethatthouhastthoughtmenotunworthytobethycompaniononthejourneyoflife……Thereisnolandofhappinessherebelow——Iknowitnow——butalandoftoil,whereeveryjoybutstrengthensusforgreaterlabour。
Hand-in-handweshalltraverseit,andencourageandstrengtheneachother,untilourspirits——oh,mayitbetogether!——shallrisetotheeternalfountainofallpeace。”
ThemarriedlifeofFichtewasveryhappy。Hiswifeprovedatrueandhighmindedhelpmate。DuringtheWarofLiberationshewasassiduousinherattentiontothewoundedinthehospitals,whereshecaughtamalignantfever,whichnearlycarriedheroff。
Fichtehimselfcaughtthesamedisease,andwasforatimecompletelyprostrated;buthelivedforafewmoreyearsanddiedattheearlyageoffifty-two,consumedbyhisownfire。
WhatacontrastdoesthecourtshipandmarriedlifeofthebluntandpracticalWilliamCobbettpresenttotheaestheticalandsentimentalloveofthesehighlyrefinedGermans!Notlesshonest,notlesstrue,but,assomewouldthink,comparativelycoarseandvulgar。Whenhefirstseteyesuponthegirlthatwasafterwardstobecomehiswife,shewasonlythirteenyearsold,andhewastwenty-one——asergeant-majorinafootregimentstationedatSt。John’sinNewBrunswick。Hewaspassingthedoorofherfather’shouseonedayinwinter,andsawthegirloutinthesnow,scrubbingawashing-tub。Hesaidatoncetohimself,”That’sthegirlforme。”Hemadeheracquaintance,andresolvedthatsheshouldbehiswifesosoonashecouldgetdischargedfromthearmy。
Ontheeveofthegirl’sreturntoWoolwichwithherfather,whowasasergeant-majorintheartillery,Cobbettsentherahundredandfiftyguineaswhichhehadsaved,inorderthatshemightbeabletolivewithouthardworkuntilhisreturntoEngland。Thegirldeparted,takingwithherthemoney;andfiveyearslaterCobbettobtainedhisdischarge。OnreachingLondon,hemadehastetocalluponthesergeant-major’sdaughter。”Ifound,”hesays,”mylittlegirlaservant-of-all-work(andhardworkitwas),atfivepoundsayear,inthehouseofaCaptainBrisac;and,withouthardlysayingawordaboutthematter,sheputintomyhandsthewholeofmyhundredandfiftyguineas,unbroken。”Admirationofherconductwasnowaddedtoloveofherperson,andCobbettshortlyaftermarriedthegirl,whoprovedanexcellentwife。Hewas,indeed,nevertiredofspeakingherpraises,anditwashispridetoattributetoherallthecomfortandmuchofthesuccessofhisafter-life。
ThoughCobbettwasregardedbymanyinhislifetimeasacoarse,hard,practicalman,fullofprejudices,therewasyetastrongundercurrentofpoetryinhisnature;and,whilehedeclaimedagainstsentiment,therewerefewmenmorethoroughlyimbuedwithsentimentofthebestkind。Hehadthetenderestregardforthecharacterofwoman。Herespectedherpurityandhervirtue,andinhis’AdvicetoYoungMen,’hehaspaintedthetruewomanlywoman——thehelpful,cheerful,affectionatewife——withavividnessandbrightness,and,atthesametime,aforceofgoodsense,thathasneverbeensurpassedbyanyEnglishwriter。
Cobbettwasanythingbutrefined,intheconventionalsenseoftheword;buthewaspure,temperate,self-denying,industrious,vigorous,andenergetic,inaneminentdegree。Manyofhisviewswere,nodoubt,wrong,buttheywerehisown,forheinsistedonthinkingforhimselfineverything。Thoughfewmentookafirmergraspoftherealthanhedid,perhapsstillfewerweremoreswayedbytheideal。Inword-picturesofhisownemotions,heisunsurpassed。Indeed,CobbettmightalmostberegardedasoneofthegreatestprosepoetsofEnglishreallife。
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(1)MungoParkdeclaredthathewasmoreaffectedbythisincidentthanbyanyotherthatbefelhiminthecourseofhistravels。Ashelaydowntosleeponthematspreadforhimonthefloorofthehut,hisbenefactresscalledtothefemalepartofthefamilytoresumetheirtaskofspinningcotton,inwhichtheycontinuedemployedfarintothenight。”Theylightenedtheirlabourwithsongs,”saysthetraveller,”oneofwhichwascomposedextempore,forIwasmyselfthesubjectofit;itwassungbyoneoftheyoungwomen,therestjoininginachorus。Theairwassweetandplaintive,andthewords,literallytranslated,werethese:’Thewindsroared,andtherainsfell。Thepoorwhiteman,faintandweary,cameandsatunderourtree。Hehasnomothertobringhimmilk,nowifetogrindhiscorn。’Chorus——’Letuspitythewhiteman,nomotherhashe!’Triflingasthisrecitalmayappear,toapersoninmysituationthecircumstancewasaffectinginthehighestdegree。Iwassooppressedbysuchunexpectedkindness,thatsleepfledbeforemyeyes。”
(2)’Transformation,orMonteBeni。’
(3)’PortraitsContemporains,’iii。519。
(4)Mr。ArthurHelps,inoneofhisEssays,haswiselysaid:”Youobserveamanbecomingdaybydayricher,oradvancinginstation,orincreasinginprofessionalreputation,andyousethimdownasasuccessfulmaninlife。Butifhishomeisanill-regulatedone,wherenolinksofaffectionextendthroughoutthefamily——
whoseformerdomestics(andhehashadmoreofthemthanhecanwellremember)lookbackupontheirsojournwithhimasoneunblessedbykindwordsordeeds——Icontendthatthatmanhasnotbeensuccessful。Whatevergoodfortunehemayhaveintheworld,itistoberememberedthathehasalwaysleftoneimportantfortressuntakenbehindhim。Thatman’slifedoesnotsurelyreadwellwhosebenevolencehasfoundnocentralhome。Itmayhavesentforthraysinvariousdirections,butthereshouldhavebeenawarmfocusoflove——thathome-nestwhichisformedroundagoodmansheart。”——CLAIMSOFLABOUR。
(5)”Theredheartsendsallitsinstinctsuptothewhitebrain,tobeanalysed,chilled,blanched,andsobecomepurereason——whichisjustexactlywhatwedoNOTwantofwomenaswomen。Thecurrentshouldruntheotherway。Thenice,calm,coldthought,which,inwomen,shapesitselfsorapidlythattheyhardlyknowitasthought,shouldalwaystraveltothelipsVIAtheheart。
Itdoessointhosewomenwhomallloveandadmire……
Thebrain-womenneverinterestusliketheheart-women;
whiterosespleaselessthanred。”——THEPROFESSORATTHE
BREAKFASTTABLE,byOliverWendellHolmes。
(6)’TheWarandGeneralCulture,’1871。
(7)”Dependuponit,mensetmorevalueonthecultivatedmindsthanontheaccomplishmentsofwomen,whichtheyarerarelyabletoappreciate。Itisacommonerror,butitisanerror,thatliteratureunfitswomenfortheeverydaybusinessoflife。Itisnotsowithmen。Youseethoseofthemostcultivatedmindsconstantlydevotingtheirtimeandattentiontothemosthomelyobjects。Literaturegiveswomenarealandproperweightinsociety,butthentheymustuseitwithdiscretion。”——
THEREV。SYDNEYSMITH。
(8)’TheStatesman,’pp。73-75。
(9)Fuller,theChurchhistorian,withhisusualhomelymother-wit,speakingofthechoiceofawife,saidbriefly,”Takethedaughterofagoodmother。”
(10)ShewasanEnglishwoman——aMissMotley。ItmaybementionedthatamongstotherdistinguishedFrenchmenwhohavemarriedEnglishwives,wereSismondi,AlfreddeVigny,andLamartine。
(11)”Plusjerouledanscemonde,etplusjesuisameneapenserqu’iln’yaquelebonheurdomestiquequisignifiequelquechose。”——
OEUVRESETCORRESPONDENCE。
(12)DeTocqueville’s’MemoirandRemains,’vol。i。p。408。
(13)DeTocqueville’s’MemoirandRemains,’vol。ii。p。48。
(14)ColonelHutchinsonwasanuncompromisingrepublican,thoroughlybrave,highminded,andpious。AttheRestoration,hewasdischargedfromParliament,andfromallofficesofstateforever。HeretiredtohisestateatOwthorp,nearNottingham,butwasshortlyafterarrestedandimprisonedintheTower。FromthencehewasremovedtoSandownCastle,nearDeal,wherehelayforelevenmonths,anddiedonSeptember11th,1664。Thewifepetitionedforleavetosharehisprison,butwasrefused。Whenhefelthimselfdying,knowingthedeepsorrowwhichhisdeathwouldoccasiontohiswife,heleftthismessage,whichwasconveyedtoher:”Lether,assheisaboveotherwomen,showherselfonthisoccasionagoodChristian,andabovethepitchofordinarywomen。”Hencethewife’sallusiontoherhusband’s”command”intheabovepassage。
(15)Mrs。LucyHutchinsontoherchildrenconcerningtheirfather:
’MemoirsoftheLifeofCol。Hutchinson’(Bohn’sEd。),pp。29-30。
(16)OntheDeclarationofAmericanIndependence,thefirstJohnAdams,afterwardsPresidentoftheUnitedStates,boughtacopyofthe’LifeandLettersofLadyRussell,’andpresentedittohiswife,”withanexpressintentanddesire”(asstatedbyhimself),”thatsheshouldconsideritamirrorinwhichtocontemplateherself;
for,atthattime,Ithoughtitextremelyprobable,fromthedaringanddangerouscareerIwasdeterminedtorun,thatshewouldonedayfindherselfinthesituationofLadyRussell,herhusbandwithoutahead:”Speakingofhiswifeinconnectionwiththefact,Mr。Adamsadded:”LikeLadyRussell,shenever,bywordorlook,discouragedmefromrunningallhazardsforthesalvationofmycountry’sliberties。Shewaswillingtosharewithme,andthatherchildrenshouldsharewithusboth,inallthedangerousconsequenceswehadtohazard。”
(17)’MemoirsoftheLifeofSirSamuelRomily,’vol。i。p。41。
(18)ItisasingularcircumstancethatintheparishchurchofSt。Bride,FleetStreet,thereisatabletonthewallwithaninscriptiontothememoryofIsaacRomilly,F。R。S。,whodiedin1759,ofabrokenheart,sevendaysafterthedeceaseofabelovedwife——CHAMBERS’BOOKOFDAYS,vol。ii。p。539。
(19)Mr。FrankBucklandsays”DuringthelongperiodthatDr。
BucklandwasengagedinwritingthebookwhichInowhavethehonourofediting,mymothersatupnightafternight,forweeksandmonthsconsecutively,writingtomyfather’sdictation;andthisoftentillthesun’srays,shiningthroughtheshuttersatearlymorn,warnedthehusbandtoceasefromthinking,andthewifetorestherwearyhand。Notonlywithherpendidsherendermaterialassistance,buthernaturaltalentintheuseofherpencilenabledhertogiveaccurateillustrationsandfinisheddrawings,manyofwhichareperpetuatedinDr。Buckland’sworks。Shewasalsoparticularlycleverandneatinmendingbrokenfossils;andtherearemanyspecimensintheOxfordMuseum,nowexhibitingtheirnaturalformsandbeauty,whichwererestoredbyherperseverancetoshapefromamassofbrokenandalmostcomminutedfragments。”
(20)Veitch’s’MemoirsofSirWilliamHamilton。’
(21)ThefollowingextractfromMr。Veitch’sbiographywillgiveoneanideaoftheextraordinarylaboursofLadyHamilton,towhoseunfailingdevotiontotheserviceofherhusbandtheworldofintellecthasbeensomuchindebted:”Thenumberofpagesinherhandwriting,”saysMr。Veitch,——”filledwithabstrusemetaphysicalmatter,originalandquoted,bristlingwithproportionalandsyllogisticformulae——thatarestillpreserved,isperfectlymarvellous。Everythingthatwassenttothepress,andallthecoursesoflectures,werewrittenbyher,eithertodictation,orfromacopy。Thisworkshedidinthetruestspiritofloveanddevotion。Shehadapower,moreover,ofkeepingherhusbanduptowhathehadtodo。Shecontendedwiselyagainstasortofenergeticindolencewhichcharacterisedhim,andwhich,whilehewasalwayslabouring,madehimapttoputasidethetaskactuallybeforehim——sometimesdivertedbysubjectsofinquirysuggestedinthecourseofstudyonthematterinhand,sometimesdiscouragedbythedifficultyofreducingtoordertheimmensemassofmaterialshehadaccumulatedinconnectionwithit。Thenherresolutionandcheerfuldispositionsustainedandrefreshedhim,andnevermoresothanwhen,duringthelasttwelveyearsofhislife,hisbodilystrengthwasbroken,andhisspirit,thoughlanguid,yetceasednotfrommentaltoil。Thetruthis,thatSirWilliam’smarriage,hiscomparativelylimitedcircumstances,andthecharacterofhiswife,suppliedtoanaturethatwouldhavebeencontentedtospenditsmightyenergiesinworkthatbroughtnorewardbutinthedoingofit,andthatmightneverhavebeenmadepubliclyknownoravailable,thepracticalforceandimpulsewhichenabledhimtoaccomplishwhatheactuallydidinliteratureandphilosophy。Itwasthisinfluence,withoutdoubt,whichsavedhimfromutterabsorptioninhisworldofrare,noble,andelevated,butever-increasinglyunattainableideas。Butforit,thesereneseaofabstractthoughtmighthaveheldhimbecalmedforlife;andintheabsenceofallutteranceofdefiniteknowledgeofhisconclusions,theworldmighthavebeenlefttoanignorantandmysteriouswonderabouttheunprofitablescholar。”
CHAPTERXII——THEDISCIPLINEOFEXPERIENCE。”Iwouldthegreatwouldgrowlikethee。
WhogrewestnotaloneinpowerAndknowledge,butbyyearandhourInreverenceandincharity。”——TENNYSON。”Nottobeunhappyisunhappynesse,Andmiserynott’haveknownmiserie;
ForthebestwayuntodiscretionisThewaythatleadesusbyadversitie;
Andmenarebettershew’dwhatisamisse,Byth’expertfingerofcalamitie,Thantheycanbewithallthatfortunebrings,Whonevershewesthemthetruefaceofthings。”——DANIEL。”Alumpofwoafflictionis,YetthenceIborrowlumpsofbliss;
Thoughfewcanseeablessingin’t,Itismyfurnaceandmymint。”——
ERSKINE’SGOSPELSONNETS。”Crossesgrowanchors,bearasthoushouldstsoThycross,andthatcrossgrowsananchortoo。”——DONNE。”Bethedayweary,orbethedaylong,AtlengthitringethtoEvensong。”——ANCIENTCOUPLET。
Practicalwisdomisonlytobelearntintheschoolofexperience。
Preceptsandinstructionsareusefulsofarastheygo,but,withoutthedisciplineofreallife,theyremainofthenatureoftheoryonly。Thehardfactsofexistencehavetobefaced,togivethattouchoftruthtocharacterwhichcanneverbeimpartedbyreadingortuition,butonlybycontactwiththebroadinstinctsofcommonmenandwomen。
Tobeworthanything,charactermustbecapableofstandingfirmuponitsfeetintheworldofdailywork,temptation,andtrial;
andabletobearthewear-and-tearofactuallife。Cloisteredvirtuesdonotcountformuch。Thelifethatrejoicesinsolitudemaybeonlyrejoicinginselfishness。Seclusionmayindicatecontemptforothers;thoughmoreusuallyitmeansindolence,cowardice,orself-indulgence。Toeveryhumanbeingbelongshisfairshareofmanfultoilandhumanduty;anditcannotbeshirkedwithoutlosstotheindividualhimself,aswellastothecommunitytowhichhebelongs。Itisonlybymixinginthedailylifeoftheworld,andtakingpartinitsaffairs,thatpracticalknowledgecanbeacquired,andwisdomlearnt。Itistherethatwefindourchiefsphereofduty,thatwelearnthedisciplineofwork,andthatweeducateourselvesinthatpatience,diligence,andendurancewhichshapeandconsolidatethecharacter。Thereweencounterthedifficulties,trials,andtemptationswhich,accordingaswedealwiththem,giveacolourtoourentireafter-
life;andthere,too,webecomesubjecttothegreatdisciplineofsuffering,fromwhichwelearnfarmorethanfromthesafeseclusionofthestudyorthecloister。
Contactwithothersisalsorequisitetoenableamantoknowhimself。Itisonlybymixingfreelyintheworldthatonecanformaproperestimateofhisowncapacity。Withoutsuchexperience,oneisapttobecomeconceited,puffed-up,andarrogant;atallevents,hewillremainignorantofhimself,thoughhemayheretoforehaveenjoyednoothercompany。
Swiftoncesaid:”Itisanuncontrovertedtruth,thatnomanevermadeanill-figurewhounderstoodhisowntalents,noragoodonewhomistookthem。”Manypersons,however,arereadiertotakemeasureofthecapacityofothersthanofthemselves。”Bringhimtome,”saidacertainDr。Tronchin,ofGeneva,speakingofRousseau——”Bringhimtome,thatImayseewhetherhehasgotanythinginhim!”——theprobabilitybeingthatRousseau,whoknewhimselfbetter,wasmuchmorelikelytotakemeasureofTronchinthanTronchinwastotakemeasureofhim。
Adueamountofself-knowledgeis,therefore,necessaryforthosewhowouldBEanythingorDOanythingintheworld。Itisalsooneofthefirstessentialstotheformationofdistinctpersonalconvictions。FredericPerthesoncesaidtoayoungfriend:”YouknowonlytoowellwhatyouCANdo;buttillyouhavelearnedwhatyouCANNOTdo,youwillneitheraccomplishanythingofmoment,norknowinwardpeace。”
Anyonewhowouldprofitbyexperiencewillneverbeaboveaskingforhelp。Hewhothinkshimselfalreadytoowisetolearnofothers,willneversucceedindoinganythingeithergoodorgreat。
Wehavetokeepourmindsandheartsopen,andneverbeashamedtolearn,withtheassistanceofthosewhoarewiserandmoreexperiencedthanourselves。
Themanmadewisebyexperienceendeavourstojudgecorrectlyofthethugswhichcomeunderhisobservation,andformthesubjectofhisdailylife。Whatwecallcommonsenseis,forthemostpart,buttheresultofcommonexperiencewiselyimproved。Norisgreatabilitynecessarytoacquireit,somuchaspatience,accuracy,andwatchfulness。Hazlittthoughtthemostsensiblepeopletobemetwithareintelligentmenofbusinessandoftheworld,whoarguefromwhattheyseeandknow,insteadofspinningcobwebdistinctionsofwhatthingsoughttobe。
Forthesamereason,womenoftendisplaymoregoodsensethanmen,havingfewerpretensions,andjudgingofthingsnaturally,bytheinvoluntaryimpressiontheymakeonthemind。Theirintuitivepowersarequicker,theirperceptionsmoreacute,theirsympathiesmorelively,andtheirmannersmoreadaptivetoparticularends。
Hencetheirgreatertactasdisplayedinthemanagementofothers,womenofapparentlyslenderintellectualpowersoftencontrivingtocontrolandregulatetheconductofmenofeventhemostimpracticablenature。PopepaidahighcomplimenttothetactandgoodsenseofMary,QueenofWilliamIII。,whenhedescribedheraspossessing,notascience,but(whatwasworthallelse)prudence。
Thewholeoflifemayberegardedasagreatschoolofexperience,inwhichmenandwomenarethepupils。Asinaschool,manyofthelessonslearnttheremustneedsbetakenontrust。Wemaynotunderstandthem,andmaypossiblythinkithardthatwehavetolearnthem,especiallywheretheteachersaretrials,sorrows,temptations,anddifficulties;andyetwemustnotonlyaccepttheirlessons,butrecognisethemasbeingdivinelyappointed。
Towhatextenthavethepupilsprofitedbytheirexperienceintheschooloflife?Whatadvantagehavetheytakenoftheiropportunitiesforlearning?Whathavetheygainedindisciplineofheartandmind?——howmuchingrowthofwisdom,courage,self-
control?Havetheypreservedtheirintegrityamidstprosperity,andenjoyedlifeintemperanceandmoderation?Or,haslifebeenwiththemamerefeastofselfishness,withoutcareorthoughtforothers?Whathavetheylearntfromtrialandadversity?Havetheylearntpatience,submission,andtrustinGod?——orhavetheylearntnothingbutimpatience,querulousness,anddiscontent?
Theresultsofexperienceare,ofcourse,onlytobeachievedbyliving;andlivingisaquestionoftime。ThemanofexperiencelearnstorelyuponTimeashishelper。”TimeandIagainstanytwo,”wasamaximofCardinalMazarin。Timehasbeendescribedasabeautifierandasaconsoler;butitisalsoateacher。Itisthefoodofexperience,thesoilofwisdom。Itmaybethefriendortheenemyofyouth;andTimewillsitbesidetheoldasaconsolerorasatormentor,accordingasithasbeenusedormisused,andthepastlifehasbeenwellorillspent。
Time,”saysGeorgeHerbert,”istheriderthatbreaksyouth。”Totheyoung,howbrightthenewworldlooks!——howfullofnovelty,ofenjoyment,ofpleasure!Butasyearspass,wefindtheworldtobeaplaceofsorrowaswellasofjoy。Asweproceedthroughlife,manydarkvistasopenuponus——oftoil,suffering,difficulty,perhapsmisfortuneandfailure。Happytheywhocanpassthroughandamidstsuchtrialswithafirmmindandpureheart,encounteringtrialswithcheerfulness,andstandingerectbeneatheventheheaviestburden!
Alittleyouthfulardourisagreathelpinlife,andisusefulasanenergeticmotivepower。ItisgraduallycooleddownbyTime,nomatterhowglowingithasbeen,whileitistrainedandsubduedbyexperience。Butitisahealthyandhopefulindicationofcharacter,——tobeencouragedinarightdirection,andnottobesneereddownandrepressed。Itisasignofavigorousunselfishnature,asegotismisofanarrowandselfishone;andtobeginlifewithegotismandself-sufficiencyisfataltoallbreadthandvigourofcharacter。Life,insuchacase,wouldbelikeayearinwhichtherewasnospring。Withoutagenerousseedtime,therewillbeanunfloweringsummerandanunproductiveharvest。Andyouthisthespringtimeoflife,inwhich,iftherebenotafairshareofenthusiasm,littlewillbeattempted,andstilllessdone。Italsoconsiderablyhelpstheworkingquality,inspiringconfidenceandhope,andcarryingonethroughthedrydetailsofbusinessanddutywithcheerfulnessandjoy。”Itisthedueadmixtureofromanceandreality,”saidSirHenryLawrence,”thatbestcarriesamanthroughlife……Thequalityofromanceorenthusiasmistobevaluedasanenergyimpartedtothehumanmindtopromptandsustainitsnoblestefforts。”SirHenryalwaysurgeduponyoungmen,notthattheyshouldrepressenthusiasm,butsedulouslycultivateanddirectthefeeling,asoneimplantedforwiseandnoblepurposes。”Whenthetwofacultiesofromanceandreality,”hesaid,”aredulyblended,realitypursuesastraightroughpathtoadesirableandpracticableresult;whileromancebeguilestheroadbypointingoutitsbeauties——bybestowingadeepandpracticalconvictionthat,eveninthisdarkandmaterialexistence,theremaybefoundajoywithwhichastrangerintermeddlethnot——alightthatshinethmoreandmoreuntotheperfectday。”(1)
ItwascharacteristicofJosephLancaster,whenaboyofonlyfourteenyearsofage,afterreading’ClarksonontheSlaveTrade,’toformtheresolutionofleavinghishomeandgoingouttotheWestIndiestoteachthepoorblackstoreadtheBible。
AndheactuallysetoutwithaBibleand’Pilgrim’sProgress’inhisbundle,andonlyafewshillingsinhispurse。HeevensucceededinreachingtheWestIndies,doubtlessverymuchatalosshowtosetabouthisproposedwork;butinthemeantimehisdistressedparents,havingdiscoveredwhitherhehadgone,hadhimspeedilybroughtback,yetwithhisenthusiasmunabated;andfromthattimeforwardheunceasinglydevotedhimselftothetrulyphilanthropicworkofeducatingthedestitutepoor。(2)
Thereneedsalltheforcethatenthusiasmcangivetoenableamantosucceedinanygreatenterpriseoflife。Withoutit,theobstructionanddifficultyhehastoencounteroneverysidemightcompelhimtosuccumb;butwithcourageandperseverance,inspiredbyenthusiasm,amanfeelsstrongenoughtofaceanydanger,tograpplewithanydifficulty。WhatanenthusiasmwasthatofColumbus,who,believingintheexistenceofanewworld,bravedthedangersofunknownseas;andwhenthoseabouthimdespairedandroseupagainsthim,threateningtocasthimintothesea,stillstoodfirmuponhishopeandcourageuntilthegreatnewworldatlengthroseuponthehorizon!
Thebravemanwillnotbebaffled,buttriesandtriesagainuntilhesucceeds。Thetreedoesnotfallatthefirststroke,butonlybyrepeatedstrokesandaftergreatlabour。Wemayseethevisiblesuccessatwhichamanhasarrived,butforgetthetoilandsufferingandperilthroughwhichithasbeenachieved。WhenafriendofMarshalLefevrewascomplimentinghimonhispossessionsandgoodfortune,theMarshalsaid:”Youenvyme,doyou?Well,youshallhavethesethingsatabetterbargainthanI
had。Comeintothecourt:I’llfireatyouwithaguntwentytimesatthirtypaces,andifIdon’tkillyou,allshallbeyourown。What!youwon’t!Verywell;recollect,then,thatIhavebeenshotatmorethanathousandtimes,andmuchnearer,beforeI
arrivedatthestateinwhichyounowfindme!”
Theapprenticeshipofdifficultyisonewhichthegreatestofmenhavehadtoserve。Itisusuallythebeststimulusanddisciplineofcharacter。Itoftenevokespowersofactionthat,butforit,wouldhaveremaineddormant。Ascometsaresometimesrevealedbyeclipses,soheroesarebroughttolightbysuddencalamity。Itseemsasif,incertaincases,genius,likeironstruckbytheflint,neededthesharpandsuddenblowofadversitytobringoutthedivinespark。Therearenatureswhichblossomandripenamidsttrials,whichwouldonlywitheranddecayinanatmosphereofeaseandcomfort。
Thusitisgoodformentoberousedintoactionandstiffenedintoself-reliancebydifficulty,ratherthantoslumberawaytheirlivesinuselessapathyandindolence。(3)Itisthestrugglethatistheconditionofvictory。Iftherewerenodifficulties,therewouldbenoneedofefforts;iftherewerenotemptations,therewouldbenotraininginself-control,andbutlittlemeritinvirtue;iftherewerenotrialandsuffering,therewouldbenoeducationinpatienceandresignation。Thusdifficulty,adversity,andsufferingarenotallevil,butoftenthebestsourceofstrength,discipline,andvirtue。
Forthesamereason,itisoftenofadvantageforamantobeunderthenecessityofhavingtostrugglewithpovertyandconquerit。”Hewhohasbattled,”saysCarlyle,”wereitonlywithpovertyandhardtoil,willbefoundstrongerandmoreexpertthanhewhocouldstayathomefromthebattle,concealedamongtheprovisionwaggons,orevenrestunwatchfully’abidingbythestuff。’”
Scholarshavefoundpovertytolerablecomparedwiththeprivationofintellectualfood。Richesweighmuchmoreheavilyuponthemind。”IcannotbutchoosesaytoPoverty,”saidRichter,”Bewelcome!sothatthoucomenottoolateinlife。”Poverty,Horacetellsus,drovehimtopoetry,andpoetryintroducedhimtoVarusandVirgilandMaecenas。”Obstacles,”saysMichelet,”aregreatincentives。IlivedforwholeyearsuponaVirgil,andfoundmyselfwelloff。AnoddvolumeofRacine,purchasedbychanceatastallonthequay,createdthepoetofToulon。”
TheSpaniardsareevensaidtohavemeanlyrejoicedthepovertyofCervantes,butforwhichtheysupposedtheproductionofhisgreatworksmighthavebeenprevented。WhentheArchbishopofToledovisitedtheFrenchambassadoratMadrid,thegentlemeninthesuiteofthelatterexpressedtheirhighadmirationofthewritingsoftheauthorof’DonQuixote,’andintimatedtheirdesireofbecomingacquaintedwithonewhohadgiventhemsomuchpleasure。Theanswertheyreceivedwas,thatCervanteshadbornearmsintheserviceofhiscountry,andwasnowoldandpoor。
’What!”exclaimedoneoftheFrenchmen,”isnotSenorCervantesingoodcircumstances?Whyishenotmaintained,then,outofthepublictreasury?””Heavenforbid!”wasthereply,”thathisnecessitiesshouldbeeverrelieved,ifitisthosewhichmakehimwrite;sinceitishispovertythatmakestheworldrich!”(4)
Itisnotprosperitysomuchasadversity,notwealthsomuchaspoverty,thatstimulatestheperseveranceofstrongandhealthynatures,rousestheirenergyanddevelopestheircharacter。Burkesaidofhimself:”Iwasnotrocked,andswaddled,anddandledintoalegislator。’NITORINADVERSUM’isthemottoforamanlikeyou。”Somemenonlyrequireagreatdifficultysetintheirwaytoexhibittheforceoftheircharacterandgenius;andthatdifficultyonceconqueredbecomesoneofthegreatestincentivestotheirfurtherprogress。
Itisamistaketosupposethatmensucceedthroughsuccess;theymuchoftenersucceedthroughfailure。Byfarthebestexperienceofmenismadeupoftheirrememberedfailuresindealingwithothersintheaffairsoflife。Suchfailures,insensiblemen,incitetobetterself-management,andgreatertactandself-
control,asameansofavoidingtheminthefuture。Askthediplomatist,andhewilltellyouthathehaslearnedhisartthroughbeingbaffled,defeated,thwarted,andcircumvented,farmorethanfromhavingsucceeded。Precept,study,advice,andexamplecouldneverhavetaughtthemsowellasfailurehasdone。Ithasdisciplinedthemexperimentally,andtaughtthemwhattodoaswellaswhatNOTtodo——whichisoftenstillmoreimportantindiplomacy。
Manyhavetomakeuptheirmindstoencounterfailureagainandagainbeforetheysucceed;butiftheyhavepluck,thefailurewillonlyservetorousetheircourage,andstimulatethemtorenewedefforts。Talma,thegreatestofactors,washissedoffthestagewhenhefirstappearedonit。Lacordaire,oneofthegreatestpreachersofmoderntimes,onlyacquiredcelebrityafterrepeatedfailures。MontalembertsaidofhisfirstpublicappearanceintheChurchofSt。Roch:”Hefailedcompletely,andoncomingouteveryonesaid,’Thoughhemaybeamanoftalent,hewillneverbeapreacher。’”Againandagainhetrieduntilhesucceeded;andonlytwoyearsafterhisDEBUT,LacordairewaspreachinginNotreDametoaudiencessuchasfewFrenchoratorshaveaddressedsincethetimeofBossuetandMassillon。
WhenMr。Cobdenfirstappearedasaspeaker,atapublicmeetinginManchester,hecompletelybrokedown,andthechairmanapologizedforhisfailure。SirJamesGrahamandMr。Disraelifailedandwerederidedatfirst,andonlysucceededbydintofgreatlabourandapplication。AtonetimeSirJamesGrahamhadalmostgivenuppublicspeakingindespair。HesaidtohisfriendSirFrancisBaring:”Ihavetriediteveryway——extempore,fromnotes,andcommittingalltomemory——andIcan’tdoit。Idon’tknowwhyitis,butIamafraidIshallneversucceed。”Yet,bydintofperseverance,Graham,likeDisraeli,livedtobecomeoneofthemosteffectiveandimpressiveofparliamentaryspeakers。
Failuresinonedirectionhavesometimeshadtheeffectofforcingthefarseeingstudenttoapplyhimselfinanother。ThusPrideaux’sfailureasacandidateforthepostofparish-clerkofUgboro,inDevon,ledtohisapplyinghimselftolearning,andtohiseventualelevationtothebishopricofWorcester。WhenBoileau,educatedforthebar,pleadedhisfirstcause,hebrokedownamidstshoutsoflaughter。Henexttriedthepulpit,andfailedtheretoo。Andthenhetriedpoetry,andsucceeded。
FontenelleandVoltairebothfailedatthebar。SoCowper,throughhisdiffidenceandshyness,brokedownwhenpleadinghisfirstcause,thoughhelivedtorevivethepoeticartinEngland。
MontesquieuandBenthambothfailedaslawyers,andforsookthebarformorecongenialpursuits——thelatterleavingbehindhimatreasuryoflegislativeprocedureforalltime。Goldsmithfailedinpassingasasurgeon;buthewrotethe’DesertedVillage’andthe’VicarofWakefield;’whilstAddisonfailedasaspeaker,butsucceededinwriting’SirRogerdeCoverley,’andhismanyfamouspapersinthe’Spectator。’
Eventheprivationofsomeimportantbodilysense,suchassightorhearing,hasnotbeensufficienttodetercourageousmenfromzealouslypursuingthestruggleoflife。Milton,whenstruckbyblindness,”stillboreupandsteeredrightonward。”Hisgreatestworkswereproducedduringthatperiodofhislifeinwhichbesufferedmost——whenhewaspoor,sick,old,blind,slandered,andpersecuted。
Thelivesofsomeofthegreatestmenhavebeenacontinuousstrugglewithdifficultyandapparentdefeat。Danteproducedhisgreatestworkinpenuryandexile。Banishedfromhisnativecitybythelocalfactiontowhichhewasopposed,hishousewasgivenuptoplunder,andhewassentencedinhisabsencetobeburntalive。WheninformedbyafriendthathemightreturntoFlorence,ifhewouldconsenttoaskforpardonandabsolution,hereplied:”No!Thisisnotthewaythatshallleadmebacktomycountry。Iwillreturnwithhastystepsifyou,oranyother,canopentomeawaythatshallnotderogatefromthefameorthehonourofDante;butifbynosuchwayFlorencecanbeentered,thentoFlorenceIshallneverreturn。”Hisenemiesremainingimplacable,Dante,afterabanishmentoftwentyyears,diedinexile。Theyevenpursuedhimafterdeath,whenhisbook,’DeMonarchia,’waspubliclyburntatBolognabyorderofthePapalLegate。
Camoensalsowrotehisgreatpoemsmostlyinbanishment。TiredofsolitudeatSantarem,hejoinedanexpeditionagainsttheMoors,inwhichhedistinguishedhimselfbyhisbravery。Helostaneyewhenboardinganenemy’sshipinasea-fight。AtGoa,intheEastIndies,hewitnessedwithindignationthecrueltypractisedbythePortugueseonthenatives,andexpostulatedwiththegovernoragainstit。Hewasinconsequencebanishedfromthesettlement,andsenttoChina。Inthecourseofhissubsequentadventuresandmisfortunes,Camoenssufferedshipwreck,escapingonlywithhislifeandthemanuscriptofhis’Lusiad。’Persecutionandhardshipseemedeverywheretopursuehim。AtMacaohewasthrownintoprison。Escapingfromit,hesetsailforLisbon,wherehearrived,aftersixteenyears’absence,poorandfriendless。His’Lusiad,’whichwasshortlyafterpublished,broughthimmuchfame,butnomoney。ButforhisoldIndianslaveAntonio,whobeggedforhismasterinthestreets,Camoensmusthaveperished。
(5)Asitwas,hediedinapublicalmshouse,wornoutbydiseaseandhardship。Aninscriptionwasplacedoverhisgrave:——”HereliesLuisdeCamoens:heexcelledallthepoetsofhistime:helivedpoorandmiserable;andhediedso,MDLXXIX。”Thisrecord,disgracefulbuttruthful,hassincebeenremoved;andalyingandpompousepitaph,inhonourofthegreatnationalpoetofPortugal,hasbeensubstitutedinitsstead。
EvenMichaelAngelowasexposed,duringthegreaterpartofhislife,tothepersecutionsoftheenvious——vulgarnobles,vulgarpriests,andsordidmenofeverydegree,whocouldneithersympathisewithhim,norcomprehendhisgenius。WhenPaulIV。
condemnedsomeofhisworkin’TheLastJudgment,’theartistobservedthat”ThePopewoulddobettertooccupyhimselfwithcorrectingthedisordersandindecencieswhichdisgracetheworld,thanwithanysuchhypercriticismsuponhisart。”
Tassoalsowasthevictimofalmostcontinualpersecutionandcalumny。Afterlyinginamadhouseforsevenyears,hebecameawandereroverItaly;andwhenonhisdeathbed,hewrote:”Iwillnotcomplainofthemalignityoffortune,becauseIdonotchoosetospeakoftheingratitudeofmenwhohavesucceededindraggingmetothetombofamendicant”
ButTimebringsaboutstrangerevenges。Thepersecutorsandthepersecutedoftenchangeplaces;itisthelatterwhoaregreat——
theformerwhoareinfamous。Eventhenamesofthepersecutorswouldprobablylongagohavebeenforgotten,butfortheirconnectionwiththehistoryofthemenwhomtheyhavepersecuted。
Thus,whowouldnowhaveknownofDukeAlfonsoofFerrara,butforhisimprisonmentofTasso?Or,whowouldhaveheardoftheexistenceoftheGrandDukeofWurtemburgofsomeninetyyearsback,butforhispettypersecutionofSchiller?
Sciencealsohashaditsmartyrs,whohavefoughttheirwaytolightthroughdifficulty,persecution,andsuffering。WeneednotreferagaintothecasesofBruno,Galileo,andothers,(6)
persecutedbecauseofthesupposedheterodoxyoftheirviews。Buttherehavebeenotherunfortunatesamongstmenofscience,whosegeniushasbeenunabletosavethemfromthefuryoftheirenemies。ThusBailly,thecelebratedFrenchastronomer(whohadbeenmayorofParis),andLavoisier,thegreatchemist,werebothguillotinedinthefirstFrenchRevolution。Whenthelatter,afterbeingsentencedtodeathbytheCommune,askedforafewdays’respite,toenablehimtoascertaintheresultofsomeexperimentshehadmadeduringhisconfinement,thetribunalrefusedhisappeal,andorderedhimforimmediateexecution——oneofthejudgessaying,that”theRepublichadnoneedofphilosophers。”InEnglandalso,aboutthesametime,Dr。
Priestley,thefatherofmodernchemistry,hadhishouseburntoverhishead,andhislibrarydestroyed,amidstshoutsof”Nophilosophers!”andhefledfromhisnativecountrytolayhisbonesinaforeignland。
Theworkofsomeofthegreatestdiscoverershasbeendoneinthemidstofpersecution,difficulty,andsuffering。Columbus,whodiscoveredtheNewWorldandgaveitasaheritagetotheOld,wasinhislifetimepersecuted,maligned,andplunderedbythosewhomhehadenriched。MungoPark’sdrowningagonyintheAfricanriverhehaddiscovered,butwhichhewasnottolivetodescribe;
Clapperton’sperishingoffeveronthebanksofthegreatlake,intheheartofthesamecontinent,whichwasafterwardstoberediscoveredanddescribedbyotherexplorers;Franklin’sperishinginthesnow——itmightbeafterhehadsolvedthelong-
soughtproblemoftheNorth-westPassage——areamongthemostmelancholyeventsinthehistoryofenterpriseandgenius。
ThecaseofFlindersthenavigator,whosufferedasixyears’
imprisonmentintheIsleofFrance,wasoneofpeculiarhardship。
In1801,hesetsailfromEnglandintheINVESTIGATOR,onavoyageofdiscoveryandsurvey,providedwithaFrenchpass,requiringallFrenchgovernors(notwithstandingthatEnglandandFrancewereatwar)togivehimprotectionandsuccourinthesacrednameofscience。InthecourseofhisvoyagehesurveyedgreatpartofAustralia,VanDiemen’sLand,andtheneighbouringislands。TheINVESTIGATOR,beingfoundleakyandrotten,wascondemned,andthenavigatorembarkedaspassengerinthePORPOISEforEngland,tolaytheresultsofhisthreeyears’laboursbeforetheAdmiralty。
OnthevoyagehomethePORPOISEwaswreckedonareefintheSouthSeas,andFlinders,withpartofthecrew,inanopenboat,madeforPortJackson,whichtheysafelyreached,thoughdistantfromthesceneofthewrecknotlessthan750miles。Thereheprocuredasmallschooner,theCUMBERLAND,nolargerthanaGravesendsailing-boat,andreturnedfortheremainderofthecrew,whohadbeenleftonthereef。Havingrescuedthem,hesetsailforEngland,makingfortheIsleofFrance,whichtheCUMBERLAND
reachedinasinkingcondition,beingawretchedlittlecraftbadlyfound。Tohissurprise,hewasmadeaprisonerwithallhiscrew,andthrownintoprison,wherehewastreatedwithbrutalharshness,hisFrenchpassprovingnoprotectiontohim。WhataggravatedthehorrorsofFlinders’confinementwas,thatheknewthatBaudin,theFrenchnavigator,whomhehadencounteredwhilemakinghissurveyoftheAustraliancoasts,wouldreachEuropefirst,andclaimthemeritofallthediscoverieshehadmade。Itturnedoutashehadexpected;andwhileFlinderswasstillimprisonedintheIsleofFrance,theFrenchAtlasofthenewdiscoverieswaspublished,allthepointsnamedbyFlindersandhisprecursorsbeingnamedafresh。Flinderswasatlengthliberated,aftersixyears’imprisonment,hishealthcompletelybroken;buthecontinuedcorrectinghismaps,andwritingouthisdescriptionstothelast。Heonlylivedlongenoughtocorrecthisfinalsheetforthepress,anddiedontheverydaythathisworkwaspublished!
Courageousmenhaveoftenturnedenforcedsolitudetoaccountinexecutingworksofgreatpithandmoment。Itisinsolitudethatthepassionforspiritualperfectionbestnursesitself。Thesoulcommuneswithitselfinlonelinessuntilitsenergyoftenbecomesintense。Butwhetheramanprofitsbysolitudeornotwillmainlydependuponhisowntemperament,training,andcharacter。While,inalarge-naturedman,solitudewillmakethepureheartpurer,inthesmall-naturedmanitwillonlyservetomakethehardheartstillharder:forthoughsolitudemaybethenurseofgreatspirits,itisthetormentofsmallones。
ItwasinprisonthatBoetiuswrotehis’ConsolationsofPhilosophy,’andGrotiushis’CommentaryonSt。Matthew,’regardedashismasterworkinBiblicalCriticism。Buchanancomposedhisbeautiful’ParaphrasesonthePsalms’whileimprisonedinthecellofaPortuguesemonastery。Campanella,theItalianpatriotmonk,suspectedoftreason,wasimmuredfortwenty-sevenyearsinaNeapolitandungeon,duringwhich,deprivedofthesun’slight,hesoughthigherlight,andtherecreatedhis’CivitasSolis,’whichhasbeensooftenreprintedandreproducedintranslationsinmostEuropeanlanguages。Duringhisthirteenyears’imprisonmentintheTower,Raleighwrotehis’HistoryoftheWorld,’aprojectofvastextent,ofwhichhewasonlyabletofinishthefirstfivebooks。LutheroccupiedhisprisonhoursintheCastleofWartburgintranslatingtheBible,andinwritingthefamoustractsandtreatiseswithwhichheinundatedallGermany。
ItwastothecircumstanceofJohnBunyanhavingbeencastintogaolthatweprobablyowethe’Pilgrim’sProgress。’Hewasthusdriveninuponhimself;havingnoopportunityforaction,hisactivemindfoundventinearnestthinkingandmeditation;andindeed,afterhisenlargement,hislifeasanauthorvirtuallyceased。His’GraceAbounding’andthe’HolyWar’werealsowritteninprison。BunyanlayinBedfordGaol,withafewintervalsofprecariousliberty,duringnotlessthantwelveyears;(7)anditwasmostprobablytohisprolongedimprisonmentthatweowewhatMacaulayhascharacterisedasthefinestallegoryintheworld。
AllthepoliticalpartiesofthetimesinwhichBunyanlived,imprisonedtheiropponentswhentheyhadtheopportunityandthepower。Bunyan’sprisonexperienceswereprincipallyinthetimeofCharlesII。ButintheprecedingreignofCharlesI。,aswellasduringtheCommonwealth,illustriousprisonerswereverynumerous。TheprisonersoftheformerincludedSirJohnEliot,Hampden,Selden,Prynne(8)(amostvoluminousprison-writer),andmanymore。ItwaswhileunderstrictconfinementintheTower,thatEliotcomposedhisnobletreatise,’TheMonarchyofMan。’
GeorgeWither,thepoet,wasanotherprisonerofCharlestheFirst,anditwaswhileconfinedintheMarshalseathathewrotehisfamous’SatiretotheKing。’AttheRestorationhewasagainimprisonedinNewgate,fromwhichhewastransferredtotheTower,andheissupposedbysometohavediedthere。
TheCommonwealthalsohaditsprisoners。SirWilliamDavenant,becauseofhisloyalty,wasforsometimeconfinedaprisonerinCowesCastle,wherehewrotethegreaterpartofhispoemof’Gondibert’:anditissaidthathislifewassavedprincipallythroughthegenerousintercessionofMilton。Helivedtorepaythedebt,andtosaveMilton’slifewhen”Charlesenjoyedhisownagain。”Lovelace,thepoetandcavalier,wasalsoimprisonedbytheRoundheads,andwasonlyliberatedfromtheGatehouseongivinganenormousbail。ThoughhesufferedandlostallfortheStuarts,hewasforgottenbythemattheRestoration,anddiedinextremepoverty。
BesidesWitherandBunyan,CharlesII。imprisonedBaxter,Harrington(theauthorof’Oceana’),Penn,andmanymore。Allthesemensolacedtheirprisonhourswithwriting。Baxterwrotesomeofthemostremarkablepassagesofhis’LifeandTimes’whilelyingintheKing’sBenchPrison;andPennwrotehis’NoCrossnoCrown’whileimprisonedintheTower。InthereignofQueenAnne,MatthewPriorwasinconfinementonavamped-upchargeoftreasonfortwoyears,duringwhichhewrotehis’Alma,orProgressoftheSoul。’
Sincethen,politicalprisonersofeminenceinEnglandhavebeencomparativelyfewinnumber。AmongthemostillustriouswereDeFoe,who,besidesstandingthreetimesinthepillory,spentmuchofhistimeinprison,writing’RobinsonCrusoe’there,andmanyofhisbestpoliticalpamphlets。Therealsohewrotehis’HymntothePillory,’andcorrectedforthepressacollectionofhisvoluminouswritings。(9)Smollettwrotehis’SirLancelotGreaves’inprison,whileundergoingconfinementforlibel。
Ofrecentprison-writersinEngland,thebestknownareJamesMontgomery,whowrotehisfirstvolumeofpoemswhileaprisonerinYorkCastle;andThomasCooper,theChartist,whowrotehis’PurgatoryofSuicide’inStaffordGaol。
SilvioPellicowasoneofthelatestandmostillustriousoftheprisonwritersofItaly。HelayconfinedinAustriangaolsfortenyears,eightofwhichhepassedintheCastleofSpielberginMoravia。Itwastherethathecomposedhischarming’Memoirs,’
theonlymaterialsforwhichwerefurnishedbyhisfreshlivinghabitofobservation;andoutofeventhetransientvisitsofhisgaoler’sdaughter,andthecolourlesseventsofhismonotonousdailylife,hecontrivedtomakeforhimselfalittleworldofthoughtandhealthyhumaninterest。
Kazinsky,thegreatreviverofHungarianliterature,spentsevenyearsofhislifeinthedungeonsofBuda,Brunne,Kufstein,andMunkacs,duringwhichhewrotea’DiaryofhisImprisonment,’andamongstotherthingstranslatedSterno’s’SentimentalJourney;’whilstKossuthbeguiledhistwoyears’
imprisonmentatBudainstudyingEnglish,soastobeabletoreadShakspeareintheoriginal。
Menwho,likethese,sufferthepenaltyoflaw,andseemtofail,atleastforatime,donotreallyfail。Many,whohaveseemedtofailutterly,haveoftenexercisedamorepotentandenduringinfluenceupontheirrace,thanthosewhosecareerhasbeenacourseofuninteruptedsuccess。Thecharacterofamandoesnotdependonwhetherhiseffortsareimmediatelyfollowedbyfailureorbysuccess。Themartyrisnotafailureifthetruthforwhichhesufferedacquiresafreshlustrethroughhissacrifice。(10)
Thepatriotwholaysdownhislifeforhiscause,maytherebyhastenitstriumph;andthosewhoseemtothrowtheirlivesawayinthevanofagreatmovement,oftenopenawayforthosewhofollowthem,andpassovertheirdeadbodiestovictory。Thetriumphofajustcausemaycomelate;butwhenitdoescome,itisdueasmuchtothosewhofailedintheirfirstefforts,astothosewhosucceededintheirlast。
Theexampleofagreatdeathmaybeaninspirationtoothers,aswellastheexampleofagoodlife。Agreatactdoesnotperishwiththelifeofhimwhoperformsit,butlivesandgrowsupintolikeactsinthosewhosurvivethedoerthereofandcherishhismemory。Ofsomegreatmen,itmightalmostbesaidthattheyhavenotbeguntoliveuntiltheyhavedied。
Thenamesofthemenwhohavesufferedinthecauseofreligion,ofscience,andoftruth,arethemenofallotherswhosememoriesareheldinthegreatestesteemandreverencebymankind。Theyperished,buttheirtruthsurvived。Theyseemedtofail,andyettheyeventuallysucceeded。(11)Prisonsmayhaveheldthem,buttheirthoughtswerenottobeconfinedbyprison-walls。Theyhaveburstthrough,anddefiedthepoweroftheirpersecutors。ItwasLovelace,aprisoner,whowrote:”Stonewallsdonotaprisonmake,Norironbarsacage;
MindsinnocentandquiettakeThatforahermitage。”
ItwasasayingofMiltonthat,”whobestcansufferbestcando。”
Theworkofmanyofthegreatestmen,inspiredbyduty,hasbeendoneamidstsufferingandtrialanddifficulty。Theyhavestruggledagainstthetide,andreachedtheshoreexhausted,onlytograspthesandandexpire。Theyhavedonetheirduty,andbeencontenttodie。Butdeathhathnopoweroversuchmen;theirhallowedmemoriesstillsurvive,tosootheandpurifyandblessus。”Life,”saidGoethe,”tousallissuffering。WhosaveGodaloneshallcallustoourreckoning?Letnotreproachesfallonthedeparted。Notwhattheyhavefailedin,norwhattheyhavesuffered,butwhattheyhavedone,oughttooccupythesurvivors。”
Thus,itisnoteaseandfacilitythattriesmen,andbringsoutthegoodthatisinthem,somuchastrialanddifficulty。
Adversityisthetouchstoneofcharacter。Assomeherbsneedtobecrushedtogiveforththeirsweetestodour,sosomenaturesneedtobetriedbysufferingtoevoketheexcellencethatisinthem。Hencetrialsoftenunmaskvirtues,andbringtolighthiddengraces。Menapparentlyuselessandpurposeless,whenplacedinpositionsofdifficultyandresponsibility,haveexhibitedpowersofcharacterbeforeunsuspected;andwherewebeforesawonlypliancyandself-indulgence,wenowseestrength,valour,andself-denial。
Astherearenoblessingswhichmaynothepervertedintoevils,sotherearenotrialswhichmaynotbeconvertedintoblessings。
Alldependsonthemannerinwhichweprofitbythemorotherwise。
Perfecthappinessisnottobelookedforinthisworld。Ifitcouldbesecured,itwouldbefoundprofitless。Thehollowestofallgospelsisthegospelofeaseandcomfort。Difficulty,andevenfailure,arefarbetterteachers。SirHumphryDavysaid:”Eveninprivatelife,toomuchprosperityeitherinjuresthemoralman,andoccasionsconductwhichendsinsuffering;
oritisaccompaniedbytheworkingsofenvy,calumny,andmalevolenceofothers。”
Failureimprovestempersandstrengthensthenature。Evensorrowisinsomemysteriouswaylinkedwithjoyandassociatedwithtenderness。JohnBunyanoncesaidhow,”ifitwerelawful,hecouldevenprayforgreatertrouble,forthegreatercomfort’ssake。”WhensurprisewasexpressedatthepatienceofapoorArabianwomanunderheavyaffliction,shesaid,”WhenwelookonGod’sfacewedonotfeelHishand。”
Sufferingisdoubtlessasdivinelyappointedasjoy,whileitismuchmoreinfluentialasadisciplineofcharacter。Itchastensandsweetensthenature,teachespatienceandresignation,andpromotesthedeepestaswellasthemostexaltedthought。(12)”ThebestofmenThate’erworeearthaboutHimwasasufferer;
Asoft,meek,patient,humble,tranquilspiritThefirsttruegentlemanthateverbreathed。”(13)
Sufferingmaybetheappointedmeansbywhichthehighestnatureofmanistobedisciplinedanddeveloped。Assuminghappinesstobetheendofbeing,sorrowmaybetheindispensableconditionthroughwhichitistobereached。HenceSt。Paul’snobleparadoxdescriptiveoftheChristianlife,——”aschastened,andnotkilled;assorrowful,yetalwaysrejoicing;aspoor,yetmakingmanyrich;ashavingnothing,andyetpossessingallthings。”
Evenpainisnotallpainful。Ononesideitisrelatedtosuffering,andontheothertohappiness。Forpainisremedialaswellassorrowful。Sufferingisamisfortuneasviewedfromtheoneside,andadisciplineasviewedfromtheother。Butforsuffering,thebestpartofmanymen’snaturewouldsleepadeepsleep。Indeed,itmightalmostbesaidthatpainandsorrowweretheindispensableconditionsofsomemen’ssuccess,andthenecessarymeanstoevokethehighestdevelopmentoftheirgenius。
Shelleyhassaidofpoets:”Mostwretchedmenarecradledintopoetrybywrong,Theylearninsufferingwhattheyteachinsong。”
DoesanyonesupposethatBurnswouldhavesungashedid,hadhebeenrich,respectable,and”keptagig;”orByron,ifhehadbeenaprosperous,happily-marriedLordPrivySealorPostmaster-General?
Sometimesaheartbreakrousesanimpassivenaturetolife。”Whatdoesheknow,”saidasage,”whohasnotsuffered?”
WhenDumasaskedReboul,”Whatmadeyouapoet?”hisanswerwas,”Suffering!”Itwasthedeath,firstofhiswife,andthenofhischild,thatdrovehimintosolitudefortheindulgenceofhisgrief,andeventuallyledhimtoseekandfindreliefinverse。(14)ItwasalsotoadomesticafflictionthatweowethebeautifulwritingsofMrs。Gaskell。”Itwasasarecreation,inthehighestsenseoftheword,”saysarecentwriter,speakingfrompersonalknowledge,”asanescapefromthegreatvoidofalifefromwhichacherishedpresencehadbeentaken,thatshebeganthatseriesofexquisitecreationswhichhasservedtomultiplythenumberofouracquaintances,andtoenlargeeventhecircleofourfriendships。”(15)
Muchofthebestandmostusefulworkdonebymenandwomenhasbeendoneamidstaffliction——sometimesasarelieffromit,sometimesfromasenseofdutyoverpoweringpersonalsorrow。”IfIhadnotbeensogreataninvalid,”saidDr。Darwintoafriend,”IshouldnothavedonenearlysomuchworkasIhavebeenabletoaccomplish。”SoDr。Donne,speakingofhisillnesses,oncesaid:”Thisadvantageyouandmyotherfriendshavebymyfrequentfeversis,thatIamsomuchtheofteneratthegatesofHeaven;
andbythesolitudeandcloseimprisonmenttheyreducemeto,Iamsomuchtheofteneratmyprayers,inwhichyouandmyotherdearfriendsarenotforgotten。”
Schillerproducedhisgreatesttragediesinthemidstofphysicalsufferingalmostamountingtotorture。Handelwasnevergreaterthanwhen,warnedbypalsyoftheapproachofdeath,andstrugglingwithdistressandsuffering,hesatdowntocomposethegreatworkswhichhavemadehisnameimmortalinmusic。Mozartcomposedhisgreatoperas,andlastofallhis’Requiem,’whenoppressedbydebt,andstrugglingwithafataldisease。Beethovenproducedhisgreatestworksamidstgloomysorrow,whenoppressedbyalmosttotaldeafness。AndpoorSchubert,afterhisshortbutbrilliantlife,laiditdownattheearlyageofthirty-two;
hissolepropertyathisdeathconsistingofhismanuscripts,theclotheshewore,andsixty-threeflorinsinmoney。SomeofLamb’sfinestwritingswereproducedamidstdeepsorrow,andHood’sapparentgaietyoftensprangfromasufferingheart。
Ashehimselfwrote,”There’snotastringattunedtomirth,Buthasitschordinmelancholy。”
Again,inscience,wehavethenobleinstanceofthesufferingWollaston,eveninthelaststagesofthemortaldiseasewhichafflictedhim,devotinghisnumberedhourstoputtingonrecord,bydictation,thevariousdiscoveriesandimprovementshehadmade,sothatanyknowledgehehadacquired,calculatedtobenefithisfellow-creatures,mightnotbelost。
Afflictionsoftenprovebutblessingsindisguise。”Fearnotthedarkness,”saidthePersiansage;it”concealsperhapsthespringsofthewatersoflife。”Experienceisoftenbitter,butwholesome;onlybyitsteachingcanwelearntosufferandbestrong。Character,initshighestforms,isdisciplinedbytrial,and”madeperfectthroughsuffering。”Evenfromthedeepestsorrow,thepatientandthoughtfulmindwillgatherricherwisdomthanpleasureeveryielded。”Thesoul’sdarkcottage,batter’danddecayed,LetsinnewlightthroughchinksthatTimehasmade。””Consider,”saidJeremyTaylor,”thatsadaccidents,andastateofafflictions,isaschoolofvirtue。Itreducesourspiritstosoberness,andourcounselstomoderation;itcorrectslevity,andinterruptstheconfidenceofsinning……God,whoinmercyandwisdomgovernstheworld,wouldneverhavesufferedsomanysadnesses,andhavesentthem,especially,tothemostvirtuousandthewisestmen,butthatHeintendstheyshouldbetheseminaryofcomfort,thenurseryofvirtue,theexerciseofwisdom,thetrialofpatience,theventuringforacrown,andthegateofglory。”(16)
Andagain:——”Nomanismoremiserablethanhethathathnoadversity。Thatmanisnottried,whetherhebegoodorbad;
andGodnevercrownsthosevirtueswhichareonlyFACULTIES
andDISPOSITIONS;buteveryactofvirtueisaningredientuntoreward。”(17)
Prosperityandsuccessofthemselvesdonotconferhappiness;
indeed,itnotunfrequentlyhappensthattheleastsuccessfulinlifehavethegreatestshareoftruejoyinit。NomancouldhavebeenmoresuccessfulthanGoethe——possessedofsplendidhealth,honour,power,andsufficiencyofthisworld’sgoods——andyetheconfessedthathehadnot,inthecourseofhislife,enjoyedfiveweeksofgenuinepleasure。SotheCaliphAbdalrahman,insurveyinghissuccessfulreignoffiftyyears,foundthathehadenjoyedonlyfourteendaysofpureandgenuinehappiness。(18)
Afterthis,mightitnotbesaidthatthepursuitofmerehappinessisanillusion?
Life,allsunshinewithoutshade,allhappinesswithoutsorrow,allpleasurewithoutpain,werenotlifeatall——atleastnothumanlife。Takethelotofthehappiest——itisatangledyarn。
Itismadeupofsorrowsandjoys;andthejoysareallthesweeterbecauseofthesorrows;bereavementsandblessings,onefollowinganother,makingussadandblessedbyturns。Evendeathitselfmakeslifemoreloving;itbindsusmorecloselytogetherwhilehere。Dr。ThomasBrownehasarguedthatdeathisoneofthenecessaryconditionsofhumanhappiness;andhesupportshisargumentwithgreatforceandeloquence。Butwhendeathcomesintoahousehold,wedonotphilosophise——weonlyfeel。Theeyesthatarefulloftearsdonotsee;thoughincourseoftimetheycometoseemoreclearlyandbrightlythanthosethathaveneverknownsorrow。
Thewisepersongraduallylearnsnottoexpecttoomuchfromlife。
Whilehestrivesforsuccessbyworthymethods,hewillbepreparedforfailures,hewillkeephismindopentoenjoyment,butsubmitpatientlytosuffering。Wailingsandcomplainingsoflifeareneverofanyuse;onlycheerfulandcontinuousworkinginrightpathsareofrealavail。
Norwillthewisemanexpecttoomuchfromthoseabouthim。Ifhewouldliveatpeacewithothers,hewillbearandforbear。Andeventhebesthaveoftenfoiblesofcharacterwhichhavetobeendured,sympathisedwith,andperhapspitied。Whoisperfect?
Whodoesnotsufferfromsomethornintheflesh?Whodoesnotstandinneedoftoleration,offorbearance,offorgiveness?WhatthepoorimprisonedQueenCarolineMatildaofDenmarkwroteonherchapel-windowoughttobetheprayerofall,——”Oh!keepmeinnocent!makeothersgreat。”
Then,howmuchdoesthedispositionofeveryhumanbeingdependupontheirinnateconstitutionandtheirearlysurroundings;
thecomfortordiscomfortofthehomesinwhichtheyhavebeenbroughtup;theirinheritedcharacteristics;andtheexamples,goodorbad,towhichtheyhavebeenexposedthroughlife!
Regardforsuchconsiderationsshouldteachcharityandforbearancetoallmen。
Atthesametime,lifewillalwaysbetoalargeextentwhatweourselvesmakeit。Eachmindmakesitsownlittleworld。Thecheerfulmindmakesitpleasant,andthediscontentedmindmakesitmiserable。”Mymindtomeakingdomis,”appliesaliketothepeasantastothemonarch。Theonemaybeinhisheartaking,astheothermaybeaslave。Lifeisforthemostpartbutthemirrorofourownindividualselves。Ourmindgivestoallsituations,toallfortunes,highorlow,theirrealcharacters。
Tothegood,theworldisgood;tothebad,itisbad。Ifourviewsoflifebeelevated——ifweregarditasasphereofusefuleffort,ofhighlivingandhighthinking,ofworkingforothers’
goodaswellasourown——itwillbejoyful,hopeful,andblessed。
If,onthecontrary,weregarditmerelyasaffordingopportunitiesforself-seeking,pleasure,andaggrandisement,itwillbefulloftoil,anxiety,anddisappointment。
Thereismuchinlifethat,whileinthisstate,wecannevercomprehend。Thereis,indeed,agreatdealofmysteryinlife——
muchthatwesee”asinaglassdarkly。”Butthoughwemaynotapprehendthefullmeaningofthedisciplineoftrialthroughwhichthebesthavetopass,wemusthavefaithinthecompletenessofthedesignofwhichourlittleindividuallivesformapart。
Wehaveeachtodoourdutyinthatsphereoflifeinwhichwehavebeenplaced。Dutyaloneistrue;thereisnotrueactionbutinitsaccomplishment。Dutyistheendandaimofthehighestlife;thetruestpleasureofallisthatderivedfromtheconsciousnessofitsfulfilment。Ofallothers,itistheonethatismostthoroughlysatisfying,andtheleastaccompaniedbyregretanddisappointment。InthewordsofGeorgeHerbert,theconsciousnessofdutyperformed”givesusmusicatmidnight。”
Andwhenwehavedoneourworkonearth——ofnecessity,oflabour,oflove,orofduty,——likethesilkwormthatspinsitslittlecocoonanddies,wetoodepart。But,shortthoughourstayinlifemaybe,itistheappointedsphereinwhicheachhastoworkoutthegreataimandendofhisbeingtothebestofhispower;
andwhenthatisdone,theaccidentsofthefleshwillaffectbutlittletheimmortalityweshallatlastputon:”Thereforewecangodieassleep,andtrustHalfthatwehaveUntoanhonestfaithfulgrave;
Makingourpillowseitherdownordust!”
NOTES
(1)’CalcuttaReview,’articleon’RomanceandRealityofIndianLife。’
(2)JosephLancasterwasonlytwentyyearsofagewhen(in1798)
heopenedhisfirstschoolinaspareroominhisfather’shouse,whichwassoonfilledwiththedestitutechildrenoftheneighbourhood。Theroomwasshortlyfoundtoosmallforthenumbersseekingadmission,andoneplaceafteranotherwashired,untilatlengthLancasterhadaspecialbuildingerected,capableofaccommodatingathousandpupils;outsideofwhichwasplacedthefollowingnotice:——”Allthatwill,maysendtheirchildrenhere,andhavethemeducatedfreely;andthosethatdonotwishtohaveeducationfornothing,maypayforitiftheyplease。”ThusJosephLancasterwastheprecursorofourpresentsystemofNationalEducation。
(3)Agreatmusicianoncesaidofapromisingbutpassionlesscantatrice——”Shesingswell,butshewantssomething,andinthatsomethingeverything。IfIweresingle,Iwouldcourther;I
wouldmarryher;Iwouldmaltreather;Iwouldbreakherheart;
andinsixmonthsshewouldbethegreatestsingerinEurope!”——
BLACKWOOD’SMAGAZINE,(4)Prescot’s’Essays,’art。Cervantes。
(5)Acavalier,namedRuydeCamera,havingcalleduponCamoenstofurnishapoeticalversionofthesevenpenitentialpsalms,thepoet,raisinghisheadfromhismiserablepallet,andpointingtohisfaithfulslave,exclaimed:”Alas!whenIwasapoet,Iwasyoung,andhappy,andblestwiththeloveofladies;butnow,Iamaforlorndesertedwretch!See——therestandsmypoorAntonio,vainlysupplicatingFOURPENCEtopurchasealittlecoals。Ihavenotthemtogivehim!”Thecavalier,Sousaquaintlyrelates,inhis’LifeofCamoens,’closedhisheartandhispurse,andquittedtheroom。SuchwerethegrandeesofPortugal!——LordStrangford’sREMARKSONTHELIFEANDWRITINGSOFCAMOENS,1824。
(6)Seechapterv。p。125。
(7)AQuakercalledonBunyanonedaywith”amessagefromtheLord,”
sayinghehadbeentohalfthegaolsofEngland,andwasgladatlasttohavefoundhim。TowhichBunyanreplied:”IftheLordsentthee,youwouldnothaveneededtotakesomuchtroubletofindmeout,forHeknewthatIhavebeeninBedfordGaolthesesevenyearspast。”
(8)Prynne,besidesstandinginthepilloryandhavinghisearscutoff,wasimprisonedbyturnsintheTower,MontOrgueil(Jersey),DunsterCastle,TauntonCastle,andPendennisCastle。Heafter-
wardspleadedzealouslyfortheRestoration,andwasmadeKeeperoftheRecordsbyCharlesII。IthasbeencomputedthatPrynnewrote,compiled,andprintedabouteightquartopagesforeveryworking-dayofhislife,fromhisreachingman’sestatetothedayofhisdeath。Thoughhisbookswereforthemostpartappropriatedbythetrunkmakers,theynowcommandalmostfabulousprices,chieflybecauseoftheirrarity。
(9)Healsoprojectedhis’Review’inprison——thefirstperiodicalofthekind,whichpointedthewaytothehostof’Tatlers,’
’Guardians,’and’Spectators,’whichfollowedit。The’Review’
consistedof102numbers,formingninequartovolumes,allofwhichwerewrittenbyDeFoehimself,whileengagedinotherandvariouslabours。
(10)ApassageintheEarlofCarlislesLectureonPope——’Heavenwasmadeforthosewhohavefailedinthisworld’——struckmeveryforciblyseveralyearsagowhenIreaditinanewspaper,andbecamearichveinofthought,inwhichIoftenquarried,especiallywhenthesentencewasinterpretedbytheCross,whichwasfailureapparently。”——LIFEANDLETTERSOFROBERTSON(ofBrighton),ii。94。
(11)”Notallwhoseemtofail,havefailedindeed;
Notallwhofailhavethereforeworkedinvain:
Forallouractstomanyissueslead;
Andoutofearnestpurpose,pureandplain,Enforcedbyhonesttoilofhandorbrain,TheLordwillfashion,inHisowngoodtime,(Bethisthelabourer’sproudly-humblecreed,)
Suchendsas,toHiswisdom,fitliestchimeWithHisvastlove’seternalharmonies。
Thereisnofailureforthegoodandwise:
WhatthoughthyseedshouldfallbythewaysideAndthebirdssnatchit;——yetthebirdsarefed;
Ortheymaybearitfaracrossthetide,Togiverichharvestsafterthouartdead。”
POLITICSFORTHEPEOPLE,1848。
(12)”Whatisit,”saysMr。Helps,”thatpromotesthemostandthedeepestthoughtinthehumanrace?Itisnotlearning;itisnottheconductofbusiness;itisnoteventheimpulseoftheaffections。Itissuffering;andthat,perhaps,isthereasonwhythereissomuchsufferingintheworld。Theangelwhowentdowntotroublethewatersandtomakethemhealing,wasnot,perhaps,entrustedwithsogreataboonastheangelwhobenevolentlyinflicteduponthesufferersthediseasefromwhichtheysuffered。”——BREVIA。
(13)TheselineswerewrittenbyDeckar,inaspiritofboldnessequaltoitspiety。Hazlitthasorsaidofthem,thatthey”oughttoembalmhismemorytoeveryonewhohasasenseeitherofreligion,orphilosophy,orhumanity,ortruegenius。”
(14)Reboul,originallyabakerofNismes,wastheauthorofmanybeautifulpoems——amongstothers,oftheexquisitepieceknowninthiscountrybyitsEnglishtranslation,entitled’TheAngelandtheChild。’
(15)’CornhillMagazine,’vol。xvi。p。322。
(16)’HolyLivingandDying,’ch。ii。sect。6。
(17)Ibid。,ch。iii。sect。6。
(18)Gibbon’s’DeclineandFalloftheRomanEmpire,’vol。x。p。40。